DO WE REALLY NEED HELP??

 

Whenever a person gets an opportunity to prove himself or when he is exposed to a competitive environment, he leaves no stone unturned for the same. He tries his level best to prove that there is no challenge in the world that he can't win over or there is nothing which he can't achieve on the basis of his skills, efforts, dedication and hardwork. Even if he gets something to do which he has never tried off before, he would happily accept the same and give his best stroke. And this fact is true as well that if a person decides to do something sincerely and honestly , he can surely do that. But then why every now and then we ask for help from someone or the other. Why are we not able to take every situation or work we get in our day to day life as a new challenge and give our best. It means whenever we ask for help, it shows that we are not willing to try or we are not capable of doing that task on our known. Is it so?? This question is not so simple to be answered as different scenarios give us distinct conclusions. Completing practical files and projects  in your school must be a rememberable memory for all of us. For some, it must be a cumbersome task and for others it must be an innovative and creative task to be completed. Few students used to work with utmost dedication whereas others used to just be a part of others work and have the taste of pulao  already cooked by someone. If I ask you that the persons who never devoted much efforts or dedication to these files and projects, didn't they succeed in their lives or didn't they achieve good position and reputation? The answer will surely force us to think that its not so. We may encounter several examples where even those persons have achieved their dreams and ambitions . Then how come those persons  needed others help in completing so simple tasks. Were they not talented at that time or it was a magic that they were gifted with magical powers in later stages of their life?? Its not true my friends. Our actions simply depend on our attitude. Those who are highly serious in their life, they take even work or task to be accomplished very sincerely. Cool persons don't pay much heed to everything. Most of the times its our laziness and casual attitude that we don't prefer to do everything on our own when we are having an option of getting something ready made already prepared by someone else. Some persons have a common trait they they are much more inclined towards  getting work done by others. They are much more interested in enjoying the fruits but not sowing the seeds. Help may also be asked when we  genuinely need some guidance or want some better ideas to help us out in proceeding forward. There is one more aspect where we ask help from our friend, siblings or close ones. This doesn't mean that we are dependent on them or we not capable. There exists a  deep feeling of affection , support and togetherness  hidden this request of seeking help. When we organize any program or arrange something, we explicitly seek help from our close ones. There is a great pleasure when we complete something together. People are really fortunate who have such dear ones in their life who  seek their help or make it a point to involve us in some worthy tasks of their life. This fact can't be denied that these small gestures make the relations and bonds vey strong and special as well. So Seeking help doesn't always judge your capabilities and skills. The word "help" carries a great weightage in it which has the value can't be universally assigned. Person should seek help but it should be genuine. We must never aim at taking advantage of others....

 

Grow and help others also to  grow in their life.......