TRACING THE GRAPH PATTERN OF  RELATIONS

 

 

R - Responsible

E - Elegant

L - Lovable

A - Affectionate

T - truthful

I - idealistic

O - outlook

N - needed

As relations have already been compared to the trees and plants beautifying your garden , their life cycle also resembles the same to a large extent.  The beauty of every flower doesn't remain the same forever. As the season changes either it droops down or some of the petals shed away. Similarly,  relations also depict several changes throughout their journey.  Most of us have complaints that few people who used to be very close to us are now not that close or in simple terms their relation with friends or even few relatives doesn't remain same throughout the life. They feel that the bond weakens or relations lose their value with time. Is it really so?? The very basic statement which can draw up your mind towards the answer is -" time has the power to change everything and anything". Nothing in the life is permanent and stagnant. You  yourself are not permanent then how can you expect anything else to be. Going by my expansion, the factors I have illustrated over there are the base of any relation. And these only are possible for bringing out some change felt in them with moving time. There could be several reasons for any relation to lose its shine. With every passing birthday of yours, the weight of responsibilities on your shoulder increases and you have to look over multiple relations where you used to look after only one or two. When people start believing that their responsibility is now much more directed towards the newly  gifted relations and not the old ones, their previous relations start shedding away their petals of spark one by one. Love and affection usually decrease only if some severe case of betrayal or conflict has taken place in any relation. Dishonesty is one of the main factors which can spoil the beauty of any bond. When we are assigned  a  new responsibility , we give our best to it , sometimes even more than what  is actually required but gradually that passion and interest fades away and we feel like having some change. Similarly , it has been observed that initially when a person is blessed with a particular relation , he gives out his best to it.He wants that he must set an example like best friendship etc . But as time passes, his thought of having everything in an idealistic manner starts losing its roots and he starts growing casual. This makes the other person feel that their relation is getting weak. Banyan tree has very strong roots. It lasts for years but with time , as its number of branches increase,  it weighs  down and doesn't look that impressive.  Similarly,  people get engaged in so many tasks as they proceed in the journey of life that everyone related to them in the earlier phases begin to realise that they are losing the rope of attachment and closeness. But this is a natural phenomenon. If the roots of your relation are strong, you will be able to satisfy each of them though with a bit difficulty. Life management is the most difficult task and so is the case here.Humans never accept changes so easily. They have a constant fear of losing and are a master of detecting even small changes. Therefore,  they find it bit difficult to accept the reality and changes experienced in the course of any relation. This becomes the main cause of their complaint.  But , this is a fact of life and can't be denied. So, nourish all your relations with utmost care and love so that their roots become capable of withstanding even strong storms.

      Time will fly away

Relations will shine

On the way

Greet them

With a beautiful smile

No matter how long

They shall blossom your days.....