CAN YOU BE EASILY GALVANISED......

Accepting a challenge and then winning over it sounds so cool and interesting. Youth of this era is highly conscious about proving themselves and at no cost want to hear a single gossip against them. Being in the limelight and always surrounded by a lot of appraisals is  one of their prime goals. One would surely say that its a very positive spirit as it instills the feeling of confidence and competitiveness among the group. This trait pushes them to always lead the crowd  by turning out themselves in every possible way. Challenges help out the individuals to know themselves better in terms of their capabilities , strengths and weakness. The journey of winning a challenge clearly reflects the zeal of individuals to be at the top. Life itself is the biggest  challenge and hence winning over such small ones,thrown at you ,adds to your ability to overcome this bigger one. But the situation is not  the same always. Flipping the pages of newspaper we come across several cases where individuals put their life at stake or turn around some wrong path  just to prove out themselves or winning over some challenge. But does their sacrifice really worthy or logistic? No, absolutely not. The irony of the fact is - Even the person taking  the wrong step  will himself  be able to judge that he was wrong if he could have been lucky enough to get a second chance of interpolation. Then what forces them to take such  a wrong step?? The answer relies upon the very basic tendency of human beings i.e- to keep their ego and image on a very high pedestal.Its very easy to provoke any person in the shade of capability and ability. "Can you do this?? No, you can't. You don't have the guts to do so."These few sentences are strong enough to excite a person to do something against their personality, ethics or morals. And why?? Because no one can ever consider themselves lower in the eyes of others. Everyone truly believes that there is nothing in the world which he is not capable of winning over. But in this force of excitement he forgets that life is not about proving others but proving yourself. If you are fully aware of your abilities , there is no need to prove them or make the whole world realise that yes, you can. Your thinking power as well as judgement power should never be overshadowed by the ill words or comments spoken by some other person. Because the world gains pleasure in seeing the acts. They are least bothered about the consequences of act. Life is yours and hence you have to be its guard. You have several responsibilities on your shoulder like your parents and your true well wishers. Before taking any such step, just think about them and just realise what impact your act is going to have on them. Ask yourself that  will you be able to say your decision proudly to them as well as yourself in future?? If your answer is truly yes. Proceed ahead.Never ever forget the basic learnings given to you by your parents and everyone who played an important role in the journey of your progress and success. If you are able  to sustain these learnings, no person in this world can dare to push you against what you are......

Good Luck and  always do  what is right for you.......