BLOSSOMING RELATIONS IN THE GARDEN OF YOUR LIFE

Sometimes we are wrapt in wonder

which forces us to wait and ponder

the reasons that we couldn't get

the best of any relation we expect

Since the time you are born and till the time you will die you preserve only one thing- Beautiful and sweet relations. Development and nourishment of human relations resemble the growth of a fruitful garden which is owned by every individual on this earth.

Every relation spreading its fragrance in the garden of your life is chosen by you as every plant finding a place in your garden is of your choice and wish.Your relations should not be guided by any preconceived notions or should not be a reflection of some other person's relation. Don't develop your garden on the footprints of your acquaintant's garden.

Every relation like a plant requires proper space for its growth. You can neither cling to every relation nor force it in the way you want it to be. 

Relations like plants and trees can be categorised as seasonal and non seasonal. Seasonal ones are those you encounter in different phases of your life-school, college,office etc. Non seasonal remain with you no matter what phase you pass in your life. An example to quote is the sweet bond of a mother and a child.

The beauty, importance and longetivity of every relationship is unique and precious just like the different saplings blosomming in your garden. Journey of any tree begins as a seed, then a plant and finally a huge tree. At every stage of its growth you have to support it with adequate conditions. Relations also demand such concern and care for their sweet and fruitful realisations.

Love, affection,support are some of the ingredients of this care.The protective feeling you possess about your plants should also be shown for your relations. They should be guarded against all odds and harsh circumstances.

The care required by the different plants of your garden varies and you need to be patient throughout the journey of their growth. The same patience you need to maintain for the growth of any strong bonding. Everything happens at its own predestined time and you need to keep this fact very well in your mind. Success of any relationship depends on the additional measures you take to enhance them like creating a boundary of trust, understanding  and faith. Strong fencing of your garden prevents any creature from destroying your efforts. These three powers will also do the same.

When you understand someone, you have faith in that person and this faith makes you develop a trust in that person. Fencing should neither be very weak or very strong. Similarly faith and trust should neither be at the peak or at the pole.

Create a new garden of your life and decorate it with some beautiful relationships of your choice. May the fragrance of every relation cherishes your garden and the beauty of it shines your life.

With good wishes

Lav Dwivedi