" SITUATION OF EXTREME DILEMMA"

The word dilemma is quite common to be used in our day to day life when we are simply unable to take decisions on small issues such as what to eat, what to wear for party , whether to go school or not etc. Such dilemma has its own essence and many a times its childish as well. Its just a reflection of normal human tendency and quality. But sometimes this dilemma puts a big question on our inner strength and self control. In that case the dilemma can't be considered as a  normal person's trait because it happens with those who are unable to hear and follow the voice of their inner soul. Many people are engaged in activities about which they themselves have an opinion that it is not correct to follow the track they are on but they are unable to leave that path and hence continue proceeding their steps towards the destination of exploitation and loss.Most of the  people having habit of smoking and drinking are very well aware that it is injurious to their health but still they continue their practices. They know that what their families tell them is correct but still this feeling of self realisation can't empower their habit of engaging in unhealthy practices. Any person always carries two personalities- internal as well as external. Internal personality develops on the basis of ethics and morals given to that person whereas external personality is usually governed by our external conditions and situations. Your internal personality is only meant to guide you everytime in every sort of situation. It tries its level best to protect you, to direct you but as it is said we don't value those who really want our welfare and are ready to help us out always. Hence we usually ignore this inner personality's voice. Our image and reputation is built on the basis of our external personality- our way of interaction with others and what we reflect to the society.This external personality is very unstable and gets easily affected by the external factors. It is very strong and tries its level best to dominate your inner personality and a war between the two is always in picture. The referre of this match is you who has to be a bit partial in this case. If a person really wants to attain peace of mind and do what is really worthy for him then he has to always favour the inner personality in this tug of war otherwise there are chances that you will be betrayed by your external personality. Humans also have one more gifted trait i.e-- when they do something good they want entire credit themselves but when they do something wrong they are in continuous search of someone on whom they can put the entire blame of their failure or weakness. The same applies here. When any person fails to go by the trustworthy inner voice he blames the criticality and severity of situation. He tries to frame a picture that the situation is not allowing him to come out of it. But these are just lame excuses.And  as i said referee is only you and hence if you are unable to cope up with the situation the only person to be blamed is you and only you. Willpower is that spark which has the capacity to burn each and every disastrous thing of your life and is the biggest motivator of any person. Humans are like  robot and it depends on your choice that you handover its key to whom-- situations or convert yourself into a self governed and controlled robot. The best creator in this universe is God and we are his creations. God has created you and not the situations. Situations are purely created by the persons on the basis of their judgement and analysis of activities going around them Hence you should empower situations and  not the situations should empower you. Respect your inner soul and proceed ahead. Noone can stop you ever.

        " IT'S BETTER TO STAND AND FIGHT THAN TO RETREAT AND THEN SHYING"