Whirling around the power of genes......

 

Observing people and analysing their traits has always been an area of interest for most of us. And in this sequence the common question which everyone faces at some point or the other is- What makes the girls and boys react so differently to various situations and phases? The common difference which noone can deny is the  huge variation in their list of priorities and likings. No matter in  which  part of the world you are both boys and girls are characterised by or embarked by a set of common features. Girls are usually tagged with the tinxture of jealousy, Attention seeking , gossiping etc. Boys are seen as creatures with carefree attitude, easy handling and cool life. Relying upon what looks outside or what is usually shown to us we may conclude that girls usually take life more seriously than boys. They have a habit of giving a second thought to each and every thing especially when it is related to an opinion about their personality. In short i can say that their consciousness factor or the image development factor is very powerful. They are highly concerned that what opinion people pursue about them and their every move or action is guided by the analysis of effect it is going to make on the  other person's mind. They are very much concerned about their image , reputation and try every possible means to be in the limelight of everyone. Its very commonly seen that the prime focus of girls is only themselves. And they carry a strong passion to have everything they wish for. This obstinacy factor pushes them towards inculcating feeling of jealousy . For them its first me then others. When they are not able to match the importance or reach the place they are aspiring for they try to adopt a strategy known as false self consolation. They start searching for faults in the actions and mitigations in the personality of others which leads to the stage of criticism. Gossiping is just a prime stage of criticism where girls really feel blessed and satisfied that they have several others to accompany them and support them regarding opinion about others. This gives them a feeling of confidence that yes, i am right and they go on proceeding towards this path. Several losers can make a strong team to criticise the winner and the same is proved in this case. The central theme of any gossiping group is comparision which may be regarding studies, luxuries, personality etc. All these activities clearly give one more indication that they have a high level of insecurity factor. They always  carry a fear of losing something or someone and this only makes their emotional quotient high. Their feelings of attachment and bonding  is very powerful which is a resulting consequence of the high value of emotional factor. And this quality helps them in being best friends...Coming onto the counterparts , boys lead a very divergent and exploring life. Because of this divergence they have lots and lots to discuss when in group instead of simply criticising others. No doubt they also compare themselves with others but their trait of not overemphasing on anything prevents them from falling into the same gossip sequence as girls. Boys are very open about accepting anything and this is a great factor which helps them out to have a good size friendcircle. They are emotional but not too much expressive as girls.They accept changes very easily and its very easy for them to flow with the time. The coolness factor of their attitude is really appreciable and hence they do what they want to without prejudging that what effect it is going to have on their reputation and image. This is the sole reason that we see a good example of unity in boys when  there is a need because the decision  relies on their choice that whether they want to do it or not. Whereas in case of girls their primary question is what others will think and not what they really wish for. Therefore its quite difficult to stand a group of girls in unity. Boys have less stability factor . They give their best to something as long as they are interested in it. They are the wholesome king of themselves. A good amount of stability is demonstrated by girls who have the power to take so many opinions into consideration before coming to a decision and sticking to their tasks once they have taken the responsibility.Now the question arises that though both the groups are creations of almighty . Then why this huge difference? Is it really the impact of genes which can't be overcome by anyone or something else... talking scientifically and taking the base of our observations we can't deny that yes the difference in genes of the two groups really plays an important role in the behaviour or traits of the two groups . But God has blessed every group with a package. Now what percentage of each  quality or characteristic you embed in your character is entirely an decision of yours. This decision is guided by your upbringing, the environment , experiences etc. God gave you one powerful computing device- your brain which you can use to decide what you want to?? Noone is gifted with negativity but if you use some positivity in excess , it may turn into negativity. For an example to quote, girls are truly blessed with a strong dedication, commitment power but if you are over dedicated to something and due to some reason you don't succeed then you may also move upon the path of developing jealousy. Likewise in boys, they give 100 percent to their friends and sometimes over trust them. But a single incidence of betrayal may lead them to false direction which may have drastic consequences.

 

There is a rule of life that everything has to be in proportion. In a drawing competition everyone is provided with same  set of colours and sheet but the art which comes out varies from person to person because there is a difference in the choices that what proportion of which colour they want to include in their drawing. Similarly in a cooking competition everyone  may be provided with the same ingredients but the dishes vary because of the choices and the selection.

 

In life , you have to cook yourself or create yourself. Ingredients are provided by God and recipe has to be of yours. The percentage of various qualities/ingredients who incorporate within you decides the  flavour/ quality of yours......

This is the only reason that neither every girl is same nor every boy is same..

 So you are the chef provided with a variety of ingredients. Just cook yourself in a way that its   fragrance  and flavour  spreads happiness in  the life of everyone around you...

Good luck!!